Going beyond selfishness does not mean you give up who you are it means to give up your false sense of who you think yourself to be. It does not mean you lose anything, It means you have inner freedom and are not pulled into everyone’s negative vibes. Your Idea of free will or heart however you can choose to see this or it can be the key to transcending any challenge in this life but your mind will not like it. I recall long ago looking out into this world and wondering in innocence the strange behavior of adults and why they lie to each other and the intentions behind the lie is always the same win-lose gain loss-you can apply this to all other areas of life.

  Selfless is the ability to understand that i uncapitalized is my own ego and it serves only the lower world if it is your free will to choose to rise beyond then you will nor will not be a doormat for anyone, as you will have healthy boundaries that only serve the almighty with grace and ease. It sounds simple and it is if it is put into practice better still practice practice practice. Zen Master or Grand Master the only way to be is to show others the truth of what is written on the pages and in the computer world Pageless no paper, inside humor hahaha. 

  What is it to hold in reverence all that you see instead texting or Facebooking all day what is to start something new and follow it to its end until complete. With no dogma nor being fanatical. Maintain balance in the middle is a healthy approach and start with 1 little tiny thing you would love to get beyond, whether you have an inner pull to start a new business or get past some old judgments about the past, everything is possible if you put in the effort. No effort no results so simple, now I did not say it is easy to face challenges but if decide then act on it little by little each scenario has to change from the inside out. If all I am doing is attempting to change the outer things then the inside is always troubled.

Rush into challenges and it becomes an attitude of gratitude for each moment and each breath Life is a Gift and may we use it for the best of everyone.